Counselling for Children & Young People

A safe, non-judgemental space to explore, grow, and heal — shaped around each young person.

Child and young person therapy

I have experience working with a wide range of issues, including bereavement, trauma, anxiety, and family breakdown. Whether it’s through play-based therapy, creative media, or talking therapies, I tailor my approach to suit your child’s developmental needs and offer support that fits where they are. This may include sand tray work, miniatures, games, or talking therapy, all designed to be as effective and comfortable as possible.

Therapy can help build a stronger sense of self, increase emotional resilience, repair relationships, and help children and young people begin to enjoy life in a way that makes sense for them. It can also reduce anxiety and fear-based behaviours. Autism and ADHD affirming, I offer inclusive support for neurodivergent individuals, LGBTQIA+ and gender-questioning clients.

If you’re looking for a therapist who will meet you with empathy, openness, and care, I’m here to help. My practice is focused on creating a safe, non-judgemental space where you and your child can explore, grow, and heal.

Supporting young people with emotional and mental health difficulties

Young people experience a wide range of emotional and mental health challenges in a world that can feel overwhelming, fast-paced, and demanding.

Sometimes these difficulties are linked to neurodivergence. Sometimes they are shaped by life experiences such as loss, trauma, or changes within the family. Often, they are a mix of both.

I offer counselling for children and young people who may be struggling with their mental health, alongside a neurodivergent-affirming approach that recognises each young person’s unique way of experiencing the world.

When a young person might need support

You might be considering counselling if a child or young person is:

Feeling anxious, overwhelmed, or constantly on edge

Withdrawing or shutting down

Struggling to cope with change or uncertainty

Experiencing strong emotions that feel difficult to manage

Finding it hard to attend school or engage in daily life

Showing changes in mood, sleep, or behaviour

Talking about feeling low, hopeless, or “different”

These experiences are more common than many people realise and support can make a meaningful difference.

Anxiety in children and young people

Anxiety is one of the most common reasons young people come to counselling. This might include:

General anxiety or constant worrying

Social anxiety

Panic attacks

School-related anxiety or avoidance

Separation anxiety

For some young people, anxiety is linked to sensory overwhelm, masking, or feeling misunderstood. In counselling, we focus on:

Understanding what anxiety feels like for them

Reducing overwhelm

Building a sense of safety and predictability

Finding ways to cope that actually work for that individual

Trauma and difficult experiences

Some young people have experienced events that feel frightening, confusing, or overwhelming. This might include:

Bullying

Loss of safety or stability

Medical experiences

Sudden changes in their environment

Ongoing stress or uncertainty

Trauma can show up in different ways including anxiety, shutdown, anger, sleep difficulties, or emotional overwhelm. Therapy offers a safe, steady space to:

Process experiences at the young person’s pace

Make sense of feelings and reactions

Rebuild a sense of safety and trust

There is no pressure to talk about anything before they are ready.

Family changes and family breakdown

Changes in family life can have a significant impact on young people. This might include:

Separation or divorce

Blended families

Conflict at home

Changes in caregiving arrangements

Young people don’t always have the words to express how these changes affect them. Counselling can help by:

Offering a neutral, supportive space

Exploring feelings safely

Supporting adjustment to change

Strengthening emotional resilience

Bereavement and loss

Grief can affect young people in many different ways. This might include the loss of:

A parent, grandparent, or loved one

A friend

A pet

A familiar home, school, or way of life

Children and young people may move in and out of grief, rather than experiencing it in a linear way. In counselling, we create space to:

Talk (or not talk) about the loss

Express feelings in different ways

Remember and stay connected to what has been lost

Make sense of confusing or overwhelming emotions

Low mood and emotional difficulties

Some young people experience ongoing low mood or emotional distress. They might:

Seem withdrawn or disconnected

Lose interest in things they used to enjoy

Struggle with self-esteem

Be highly self-critical

Feel hopeless or stuck

Counselling provides a space where they can be heard and understood without judgement.

There is no “one-size-fits-all” approach — therapy is shaped around the individual.

A neurodivergent-affirming perspective

If a young person is neurodivergent, their mental health experiences are often shaped by:

Sensory overwhelm

Masking and exhaustion

Feeling misunderstood or unsupported

Navigating environments that don’t meet their needs

This is why I integrate a neurodivergent-affirming approach into all areas of my work. This means:

Looking beyond behaviour to understand underlying needs

Avoiding blame or “fixing” approaches

Supporting the young person as they are

Recognising the impact of their environment

How counselling can help

Counselling offers young people:

A consistent, safe relationship

Space to express themselves in their own way

Support in understanding their emotions

Tools and strategies that fit them

A sense of being heard and taken seriously

There is no “one-size-fits-all” approach, therapy is shaped around the individual.

Support for parents and carers

It can be difficult to know how best to support a young person who is struggling. Alongside counselling, I offer support for parents and carers to:

Better understand what their child may be experiencing

Respond in ways that reduce stress and conflict

Support emotional wellbeing at home

Feel more confident in navigating challenges

Looking for counselling for a young person?

If you are searching for:

counselling for child anxiety

bereavement support for children

mental health support for teenagers

trauma therapy for young people

support through family breakdown

You’re in the right place.

How I work with neurodivergence

If you’ve landed here, you might be feeling overwhelmed, misunderstood, or simply tired of trying to fit into spaces that don’t quite work for you. You might be a young person, or a parent looking for support for your child. You might already identify as neurodivergent, or you might just have a sense that something about the way you experience the world is different. However you got here, you’re welcome.

I am a child and young person psychotherapeutic counsellor offering a neurodivergent-affirming space. That means I don’t see autism, ADHD, or other forms of neurodivergence as problems to be fixed. Instead, I understand them as valid ways of being, each with their own strengths, challenges, and needs.

Many of the young people I work with have experienced:

Feeling “too much” or “not enough”

Burnout, anxiety, or shutdown

Struggles with school, friendships, or expectations

Masking or hiding who they are to fit in

Not being properly understood by adults or professionals

In our work together, we move away from trying to change who you are, and instead focus on understanding you — your experiences, your needs, your boundaries, and your way of being in the world.

This is a space where:

You don’t have to pretend

You can communicate in ways that work for you (talking, silence, creativity, movement)

Your sensory needs are respected

Your pace is the right pace

You are taken seriously

For parents and carers, I also offer a space to explore how best to support your child in a way that honours who they are, rather than trying to make them fit into expectations that may not suit them.

You don’t need a formal diagnosis to access support here. If you feel that a neurodivergent-affirming approach might help, that is enough.

How I work / the process

Starting therapy can feel uncertain, especially if previous experiences haven’t felt helpful or safe. I aim to make this process as transparent, flexible, and collaborative as possible.

First contact

We begin with an initial conversation. This can be with a parent/carer, a young person, or both, whatever feels most comfortable. This is a chance to:

Ask questions

Share what’s been going on

Get a sense of whether I feel like the right fit

There is no pressure to commit, finding the right therapist matters.

Building a safe space

The first sessions focus on getting to know each other and building trust. For many neurodivergent young people, this can take time, especially if they’ve had experiences of not being understood or of needing to mask. There is no expectation to open up quickly. We might:

Sit and talk

Use creative materials

Share interests

Spend time in quiet or low-demand ways

Connection comes before “working on problems.”

A neurodivergent-affirming approach

My work is grounded in the understanding that neurodivergence is not something to be fixed. This means:

I won’t use approaches that aim to make young people appear “more typical”

I respect stimming, special interests, and different communication styles

I pay attention to sensory needs and adjust the environment where possible

I recognise the impact of masking, burnout, and chronic stress

We focus on understanding experiences rather than changing identity.

What we might work on

Each young person is different, but our work might include:

Understanding emotions and internal experiences

Exploring identity and self-acceptance

Managing anxiety, overwhelm, or shutdown

Recovering from burnout

Navigating school or social environments

Developing self-advocacy and boundaries

We move at a pace that feels manageable.

Flexibility in communication

Not everyone finds talking the easiest way to express themselves. Sessions can include:

Drawing or creative expression

Writing or texting

Using objects or visuals

Movement or sensory tools

Silence, when needed

All forms of communication are valid.

Working with parents and carers

Where appropriate, I offer support to parents and carers alongside the young person’s therapy. This might include:

Understanding neurodivergence in an affirming way

Exploring how to reduce stress and overwhelm at home

Supporting communication and connection

Thinking about school or external systems

The aim is to create a supportive environment around the young person, not to “fix” them.

Ending therapy

Therapy doesn’t have to be open-ended forever. We regularly check in about how things are going, and endings are planned collaboratively, at a pace that feels safe and respectful.

A final note

You don’t need to be certain about anything before reaching out. You don’t need the “right words.” You don’t need a diagnosis. You don’t need to be in crisis. If something here resonates, that’s enough to start a conversation.

Get in touch

If you’re looking for a therapist who will meet you with empathy, openness, and care, I’m here to help. An initial conversation can help you decide what feels like the right next step.

Contact details

Address

25 Richmond Street, York, YO31 7XL

Online

Sessions available via Zoom

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